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Interpersonal Manipulation & Heroes
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Welcome! This forum is about interpersonal manipulation (especially in its extreme forms) and also about how we are all the hero of our own stories, our own lives.

Highly manipulative relationships and groups include battering relationships, cults, and many others which are more subtle and therefore harder to spot. Being a healthy hero is centered on the opposite -- becoming as autonomous as possible and endorsing the autonomy of others.

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Subject:   Re: Decision Making
Name:   Beth
Date Posted:   Aug 21, 08 - 10:26 AM
Website:   http://www.beth-peterson.com
Message:   Ah Confused, I'm sorry that you've found yourself in this situation.

One of the things I am struck with is the possibility that you have never set conscious limits of what you will accept from others in your relationships with them. If you haven't, I'd really suggest that this is something that will help you. (It is actually important for all of us, but also something we don't realize, most of the time.) I have an article, Limits of Tolerance, on my blog that you may want to read.

For your own emotional health and one way or another, it sounds like you need to stop or get off the merry-go-round you've found yourself on. I think seeing the counselor alone would be a good step for you.
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Re: Re: Decision Making by Confused · Aug 24, 08 - 7:59 PM
Re: Decision Making by Beth · Aug 28, 08 - 8:30 AM


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