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Welcome! This forum is about interpersonal manipulation (especially in its extreme forms) and also about how we are all the hero of our own stories, our own lives.

Highly manipulative relationships and groups include battering relationships, cults, and many others which are more subtle and therefore harder to spot. Being a healthy hero is centered on the opposite -- becoming as autonomous as possible and endorsing the autonomy of others.

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Subject:   Decision Making
Name:   Confused
Date Posted:   Aug 6, 08 - 11:56 AM
Message:   Hello,

My husband continues to make family decisions regarding his kids (i'm a stepmom) and I have no control over it. I never have. It's really taking a toll on me and I'm wondering why I'm even here, what purpose I serve. I don't think it's right that he makes all the decisions and I'm not involved. We aren't a team. He just makes them himself and tells me to "get over it." That he's "going to do it" regardless of what I think.

Please advise.

Helpless.
Replies:    
Re: Decision Making by Beth · Aug 7, 08 - 5:48 AM
Re: Re: Decision Making by Confused · Aug 21, 08 - 7:35 AM
Re: Decision Making by Beth · Aug 21, 08 - 10:26 AM
Re: Re: Decision Making by Confused · Aug 24, 08 - 7:59 PM
Re: Decision Making by Beth · Aug 28, 08 - 8:30 AM


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