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Interpersonal Manipulation & Heroes
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Welcome! This forum is about interpersonal manipulation (especially in its extreme forms) and also about how we are all the hero of our own stories, our own lives.

Highly manipulative relationships and groups include battering relationships, cults, and many others which are more subtle and therefore harder to spot. Being a healthy hero is centered on the opposite -- becoming as autonomous as possible and endorsing the autonomy of others.

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Subject:   Re: Re: What do I do?
Name:   Beth
Date Posted:   Mar 4, 08 - 1:35 PM
Website:   http://www.beth-peterson.com
Message:   Dear Confused,
One of the things I have seen a lot, is that manipulative relationships destroy the personal boundaries of everyone involved. Once that begins, it's like a snowball going downhill -- pretty soon it reaches avalanche proportions!

By improving your own personal boundaries, you have a better chance at healthy relationships. :-)

And remember, sometimes there is no way to get another person interested in hearing what you have to say. When that is the case, rather than beat your head against the wall, accept that the wall exists and then try to figure out the best way to be healthy *for you*.

It may take several trials to find the best resolution; the main thing is to continue to make the effort.

Hang in there!
Beth
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Re: Re: Re: What do I do? by Confused · Mar 11, 08 - 7:21 AM
Re: What do I do? by Beth · Mar 11, 08 - 8:09 AM
Re: Re: What do I do? by Confused · Mar 14, 08 - 6:57 AM


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