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Welcome! This forum is about interpersonal manipulation (especially in its extreme forms) and also about how we are all the hero of our own stories, our own lives.

Highly manipulative relationships and groups include battering relationships, cults, and many others which are more subtle and therefore harder to spot. Being a healthy hero is centered on the opposite -- becoming as autonomous as possible and endorsing the autonomy of others.

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Subject:   Re: Re: What do I do?
Name:   Confused
Date Posted:   Mar 2, 08 - 8:08 PM
Message:   Hello,

Tonight wasn't a very good night. We had discussed Easter and he isn't flexible with how to set time for both families...which upset me. We watched a show together and he had shot me a look after I fast forward too far into the show...and i said "Don't even look at me." Well, he took that offensively, went upstairs and i followed him, wanting to tell him that i didn't mean that in a mean way...but that I was still upset. Well...he would NOT let me into the bedroom, kept telling me to leave him alone and kept pushing me away from the door..until he finally physically pushed me out of the bedroom and locked the door. Is this considering abuse?

His daughter was with us today but was in her room at the time. We haven't had any contact since then (earlier this afternoon) and I actually cried downstairs and he called my cell phone telling me that his daughter can hear me crying and taht i shoudl either "Stop crying or leave." and that was the last thing said tonight. I am determined not to say anything to him and just am distraught and disappointed.

Distraught,
Confused
Replies:    
Re: What do I do? by Beth · Mar 3, 08 - 7:41 AM
Re: What do I do? by Confused · Mar 3, 08 - 11:38 AM
Re: Re: What do I do? by Beth · Mar 4, 08 - 1:35 PM
Re: Re: Re: What do I do? by Confused · Mar 11, 08 - 7:21 AM
Re: What do I do? by Beth · Mar 11, 08 - 8:09 AM
Re: Re: What do I do? by Confused · Mar 14, 08 - 6:57 AM


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