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Interpersonal Manipulation & Heroes
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Welcome! This forum is about interpersonal manipulation (especially in its extreme forms) and also about how we are all the hero of our own stories, our own lives.

Highly manipulative relationships and groups include battering relationships, cults, and many others which are more subtle and therefore harder to spot. Being a healthy hero is centered on the opposite -- becoming as autonomous as possible and endorsing the autonomy of others.

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Subject:   Daughter in Danger?
Name:   Desperate Mom
Date Posted:   Nov 26, 07 - 9:21 AM
Message:   My 21 yr old daughter has been in a relationship for almost a year now with a 36 yr old man. From the beginning, a red flag has been there (age difference alone) for my "mother's intuition". As time has gone on, based on things my daughter tells me, he is a jealous, controlling, manipulator who has her under his spell. He is very subtle, but I see him taking advantage of her young age and vulnerability. She has broken ties with her old friends and does not confide in me as much, mostly because what she tells me about him draws more red flags from me and she wants me to like him. I see him playing major head games with her and she has no clue. How can I convince her this relationship is heading for possibly serious trouble?
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Re: Daughter in Danger? by Beth · Nov 27, 07 - 1:01 PM
Re: Re: Daughter in Danger? by Desperate Mom · Nov 29, 07 - 9:37 AM
Re: Daughter in Danger? by Beth · Nov 29, 07 - 11:48 AM


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