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Welcome! This forum is about interpersonal manipulation (especially in its extreme forms) and also about how we are all the hero of our own stories, our own lives.

Highly manipulative relationships and groups include battering relationships, cults, and many others which are more subtle and therefore harder to spot. Being a healthy hero is centered on the opposite -- becoming as autonomous as possible and endorsing the autonomy of others.

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Subject:   Re: new drama
Name:   CG
Date Posted:   Apr 7, 06 - 9:01 AM
Message:   Just got an email from John's girlfriend. It turns out that Kevin called Jennifer last night. He told John that she is being really nice to him, but that he still doesn't want to go back. (doesn't sound too convincing to me)

The DARE officer in my school says that as long as Kevin keeps calling Jennifer, we have NO way to defend ourselves. We cannot file a restraining order or complain of harrassment, because he is calling her and he is living in our house (although he didn't call her FROM our house).

We are being left with no choice but to give him an ultimatum. She has the right to harrass us as much as she wants....more 1:00 am phone calls, and she can come by our house at ungodly hours and do whatever she wants as long as he's talking to her. What in the world are we supposed to do? I'm sure this isn't the first time Jennifer has been through this -- she could very well be knowledgeable on the laws and KNOW that we can't do anything....*sigh*
-C
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Re: new drama by Beth · Apr 7, 06 - 10:50 AM
Re: Re: new drama by CG · Apr 7, 06 - 12:31 PM
Re: Re: Re: new drama by CG · Apr 10, 06 - 12:22 PM
Re: new drama by Beth · Apr 10, 06 - 1:20 PM


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